Monday, February 2, 2009

Appreciate her

because you might just marry a working woman...

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements;

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name;

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day 1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen;

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinting support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this.......

So now that you know all this learn to appreciate "HER"

For girls to make their day and for guys who can handle it

Quote of the day

Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater.
If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.
If you give her a house, she'll give you a home.
If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal.
If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart.
She multiplies and improves what is given to her.

So... if you give her any little crap, be prepared to receive a ton of shit.

Sunday, February 1, 2009

maaloom hota hai ki bacchan ji hamesha hi "in" rahne walon me se hain ;) ...

tabhi to aap logon ne unki rachna ko itna saraha hai....

waise kaafi logon ko galatfahmi ho rahi hai to bus isliye is post ke maadhyam se hum batana chahte hain ki mere blog me jo bhi kavitayein hain wo mere dwara likhi nahin gayin...

har kavita ke neeche label me kavi ka naam likha hua hai....

publicly hum bus ads likhte hain....

meri kavitayein bus meri diary ke liye hain...

blog k liye nahin...

kavitaon ko sanjone ka shauk hai hame to isliye itni saari kavitaon ko ek saath jama kiya hai...

aap logon ko dhokha dene ka khyal bilkul nahin tha...

bus ye dhyaan na raha ki label ke alawa kavita ke neeche bhi kavi ka naam likh dena chahiye.

St. Theresa's Prayer



'May today there be peace within.
May you trust that you are exactly
where you are meant to be.
May you not forget the infinite possibilities
that are born of faith in yourself and others.
May you use the gifts that you have received,
and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May you be content with yourself
just the way you are.
Let this knowledge settle into your bones,
and allow your soul the freedom
to sing, dance, praise and love.
It is there for each and every one of us.'